The grass tickling my bare feet, I sat cross-legged with eight or so cousins on my grandparents’ sprawling front lawn. We gazed at the country road, the summer sun warming our backs while we watched the seemingly endless parade of marching bands, vintage cars sounding the occasional AWOOGAH, shiny fire engines causing the heart to race, and homemade floats sponsored by the 4-H, scouting troops, and local churches–their occupants happy to return our waves or throw some candy into our tiny, eager hands.

To our left stood the men in the family, drinking beer and grilling as they shared family anecdotes and complaints about work at the town mine, a thick ribbon of smoke rising from the fireplace between them into a powder-blue sky. Behind us sat the matriarchs, perched on the large, white farmhouse’s porch overlooking their chicks. Secure as only a small child surrounded by loving relatives can feel, I savored my hot dog and creamy potato salad as I balanced the flimsy paper plate on my skinny legs.

After lunch, we kids played Mother May I? and Freeze Tag, fawned over the newest batch of kittens under the porch, and challenged each other to watermelon seed spitting contests. Tired of entertaining ourselves, we commandeered a grown-up to walk downhill with us toward the lakefront where small amusement rides, concession stands, and game tents transformed our simple Main Street into a child-friendly street fair.

As the sun set, we returned uphill to our grandparents’ house. Our pockets were now empty of quarters, our hands full of trinkets and fuzzy stuffed animals, and our tummies satisfied by cotton candy and ice cream. There we burned off our energy, racing each other as we chased lightning bugs with mason jars borrowed from Grandpa. I was lucky, catching four fireflies for a close-up look before I set them free, fascinated as they flickered their way back into the inky darkness.

With two of my cousins, I peeked through the glowing kitchen window. Reassured by the vision of women washing dishes and wrapping leftovers from the day, I listened as they chatted and laughed among themselves. Trying to catch hints of family gossip, my cousins and I giggled until we were shooed away with a smile. Through another window, this time one on the porch, we spied the men seated around the family room’s expansive oak table playing pinocle as usual. Their bulky frames huddled over their cards while they talked and contemplated their next moves.

Eventually, we joined the rest of the kids to flop onto the porch’s assorted chairs and reflect on the holiday’s events in hushed voices. Soon, my mind drifted from the conversation. Closing my eyes, I inhaled the pungent scent of geraniums that hung in large baskets around us, listened to lonely crickets chirping for mates, and sank further into my favorite pillowy chair.

Alerted by the screeching screen door, excitement built among us as the adults spilled onto the porch, urging us to join them

on the Adirondack chairs arranged in a semi-circle on the velvet grass. We eagerly climbed onto a parent’s warm lap. Before I knew it, fireworks filled the sky in all their red, white, and blue glory. I snuggled close to my mother, my head tipped back on her shoulder to watch the show while her arms sheltered me from my fear of the deafening noise.

My grandparents and mother are no longer with me, my cousins and I live far apart, and that large, white farmhouse on the hill has a new resident–unrelated to our family. But in my mind, I can revisit those idyllic moments any time I choose. Sometimes I hold them close to my heart, content with nostalgia. At times like today, I share them with loved ones and friends.

Now it’s your turn. I’d love to hear about your cherished Independence Day memory, or perhaps a tradition in your family that makes this holiday extra-special for you.

May we also remember those who strive to keep America, “The land of the free and home of the brave.”